This episode is talking about life during our ttc journey and after our miscarriage and how easy it is to fall into avoidance methods to cope. Society has trained us to look for silver linings or positive alternatives to our hard/heavy struggles. Thinking about Samantha from Sex in the City "I don't have a baby, everybody drink", implying that the benefit to not being pregnant is you can still drink alcohol. This has been something I have had to deal with throughout my journey. So let's chat about it, let's dive into this idea of avoiding our hard feelings and ways that might help us heal better.