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What does your happiness have to do with success? Here's a fact: Research shows happiness causes success, not the other way around.
This week's episode is the first of the 4-part series on LETTING GO.For this week's episode, I discuss 3 common negative emotions - anger, fear, & guilt/shame and possible messages they send. I then offer you questions of self-reflection so that you can take steps to move forward.
1. Negative Emotion: ANGER
Possible Message: Someone crossed your boundary.
Questions of Self-Reflection: What can I do to move on from my anger? What could I do differently to reduce the chance of this happening again?
2. Negative Emotion: FEAR
Possible Message: I may be focused more on the potential for a negative outcome than a positive outcome.
Questions of Self-Reflection: What if my fear came true? How would I overcome it?
3. Negative Emotion: GUILT and/or SHAME
Possible Messages: I have done something that is out of alignment with my values and beliefs. Or, I am allowing past actions or experiences to define who I am.
Questions of Self-Reflection:
Do I need to seek forgiveness from others or myself? How can I ensure that I won't repeat this in the future? What can I learn from this mistake or failure that will help me behave differently in the future?
Make sure you follow me on social media: Instagram: @drpaulacoach Facebook: @drpaulacoach
By Dr. PaulaWhat does your happiness have to do with success? Here's a fact: Research shows happiness causes success, not the other way around.
This week's episode is the first of the 4-part series on LETTING GO.For this week's episode, I discuss 3 common negative emotions - anger, fear, & guilt/shame and possible messages they send. I then offer you questions of self-reflection so that you can take steps to move forward.
1. Negative Emotion: ANGER
Possible Message: Someone crossed your boundary.
Questions of Self-Reflection: What can I do to move on from my anger? What could I do differently to reduce the chance of this happening again?
2. Negative Emotion: FEAR
Possible Message: I may be focused more on the potential for a negative outcome than a positive outcome.
Questions of Self-Reflection: What if my fear came true? How would I overcome it?
3. Negative Emotion: GUILT and/or SHAME
Possible Messages: I have done something that is out of alignment with my values and beliefs. Or, I am allowing past actions or experiences to define who I am.
Questions of Self-Reflection:
Do I need to seek forgiveness from others or myself? How can I ensure that I won't repeat this in the future? What can I learn from this mistake or failure that will help me behave differently in the future?
Make sure you follow me on social media: Instagram: @drpaulacoach Facebook: @drpaulacoach