This episode isn't really about kids' birthday parties - until it is. We talk about the party behaviors that miss the mark, like showing up late or expecting special treatment, and why presence will always matter more than presents. But underneath it all is a deeper story: growing up feeling forgettable, unchosen, and unseen. This is a conversation about healing that wound, and making sure our kids (and the people around us) never have to wonder if they are worth being shown up for.