Rachel ponders how we, as humans, change over the course of a life. She talks about changing attachment styles, the love languages, then chats a bit about the viral “Who the Fuck Did I Marry” tik tok saga. She then welcomes erotica writer Ruan Willow and the two discuss the differences between porn and erotica, how to write erotica, audio erotica, and more!

Episode Notes:

Conversation with Ruan begins at 00:15:24.

Follow Ruan Willow: 

Website: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/ 

Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmfiA8FVPG766ouQ9P3QG 

I Dare You Released March 9: https://www.amazon.com/Dare-You-Saturday-Challenge-Play-ebook/dp/B0CST8K18R 

Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ruan-Willow/author/B08ZYW6B3K

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruanwillow/?hl=en 

Medium: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow 

Goodreads: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow 

Substack: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ 

FrolicMe: https://www.frolicmep[dot]com/erotic-authors/ruan-willow/ 

Discussed in this episode:

Taylor Tomlinson love languages: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gmK_ei4NlU 

Reesa Teesa on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reesamteesa?lang=en 

Full “Who the Fuck Did I Marry?” story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EC1dKx6maZ4 

Gilbert Godfrey reads 50 Shades of Grey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XkLqAlIETkA

Shayla Black: https://www.shaylablack.com/

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Podcast artwork by Yogesh Nankar (Design by Dreamers).

Intro and Outro music by John Bartmann. 

Promo image used with permission by Ruan Willow.