In this powerful episode of The Union Podcast, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, for a candid and hope-filled conversation designed specifically for church leaders.

As pastors, ministry leaders, and youth workers navigate the pressures of spiritual leadership, many also face private struggles with sexual brokenness — often in silence. Nick shares his own story of battling pornography addiction while in pastoral ministry, and how coming into the light became the starting point of healing, not the end of his calling.

We also discuss the sobering results of “Beyond the Porn Phenomenon,” a Barna study conducted in partnership with Pure Desire, which highlights just how deeply pornography is affecting the Church — including its leaders.

This episode is an invitation to move from isolation to integrity — and to rethink how churches can cultivate a culture of grace, transparency, and long-term restoration.

Topics Covered:

Nick’s personal journey through addiction and healing

The role of Pure Desire Ministries in helping leaders find freedom

The Church’s response to pornography and sexual shame

How to create safe, accountable spaces for healing in leadership

Practical next steps for pastors and church staff who feel stuck

Whether you’re leading others or trying to lead yourself well, this conversation will encourage you: you’re not alone, and there’s a path toward wholeness.

Pure Desire Ministries
Website: https://www.puredesire.org
Get Help: https://www.puredesire.org/get-help

Leader Resources: https://www.puredesire.org/church-leaders

Conquer Series: https://www.puredesire.org/conquer-series

Barna Study – Beyond the Porn Phenomenon
Download the full report here: https://www.barna.com/research/beyond-the-porn-phenomenon

Nick Stumbo’s Book
"Setting Us Free: An Invitation to a Life of Freedom, Healing, and Hope"
Available here

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