Take a moment to answer this question: (You can think about it, or write the answer down.) What is your motivation for giving? Is it any of the above? Is it none of the above? You might enjoy giving, as you find it rewarding to see the delight on someone’s else’s face as they open your gift. I believe the best gifts are ones given without expectation, or obligation. It’s a gift given without being tethered to an outcome. If the receiver offers a “thank you”, that’s a bonus, but a “thank you” is not required, if you give without expectation of anything in return.