For the month of May, we have focused on communication. We have broken down communication and explained that it should be clear, calm, current, and constructive. Then we talked about how you could implement constructive communication in a Biblical and practical way. 

We are wrapping this month up by talking about a form of communication that absolutely changes our marriage for the better.

What Does It Mean to Over-Communicate?

Over-Communication means you use as many literal words as necessary to express an expectation, a need, or a want. In other words, over-communicate assumes nothing but communicates everything.

4 Ways to Over-Communicate with Your Spouse Flat-out state what you want/need.

Your spouse cannot read your mind. It is unfair to get upset over uncommunicated expectations or desires.

Repeat back what you heard.

When you and your spouse are having an important conversation it’s always a good idea to repeat back what you think they are trying to communicate. When you start practicing this you may be surprised how often you hear something completely different than what your spouse is trying to say.

Ask clarifying questions.

If you are having a hard time understanding each other start asking clarifying questions. Get as many details as possible, do not just assume you have an understanding of the point.

Once a decision is made, restate the decision in your own words as well as the plan (if applicable) you both agree to execute.

This is one of the most important steps in this process. Do not leave the conversation without making sure you know the plan but also know what the next step is.

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