If you want something to be different in your life, get very clear on what you want the outcome to look like.  Then decide how badly you want that outcome.  Because if you really want it, you'll create and follow the fool-proof steps necessary for insuring the outcome.  If that seems too much or too restrictive to you, be ok that it isn't something that you really want.  Or wake up to the realization that unless you change your actions, your outcome will stay the same.