In this raw and unfiltered episode of 20 Sum Things, I’m joined by Hugo for a deep conversation about sex. We dive into hookup culture, turn ons, turn offs, body counts, and navigating the ever-important topic of consent. But it doesn’t stop there. We also explore the darker corners of our relationships with sex, including how trauma, shame, and even self-harm can show up in the most intimate moments. In a world that teaches us to perform pleasure instead of actually experiencing it, we’re learning that what the birds and the bees never taught us was how to feel safe, seen, and satisfied.