We live in a technology driven society. Wherever you go, and anywhere you look you can find some form of technology. Although technology has brought us a ton of conveniences it has the power to destroy something that is far more precious, your intimacy and connection with your spouse and family. 

Statistics Don’t Lie

So we recently when to a marriage conference where Jimmy Evans was speaking. He is the founder of XO Marriage, a ministry that exists to help couples have a healthy and strong marriage. He talked a lot about technology and the impact it can have on your marriage as a whole. Here is a little of what he shared with us.

• 1/3 of all affairs start online.

• Facebook causes 25% of arguments that take place in a week’s period.

• 1 in 7 couples consider divorce because of the social media habits of their spouse.

And here are the ones that left us speechless…

• 10% of people will stop having sex to check their phone if it goes off.

• 35% of people check their phones as soon as they are finished having sex.

Our Take Away

The majority of people, when given the opportunity, will choose technology (especially their phones) over actual human interaction and connection.

Ways to Regain Intimacy and Connection Intimacy Requires Privacy

Goal #1- Set aside some time every day that is technology free.

Intimacy Requires Living Human Contact

Goal #2- Be intentional about holding your spouse instead of your phone.

Intimacy Requires Protection

Goal #3- Set boundaries that will protect your marriage.

Intimacy Requires Rest

Goal #4- Find some time each week to rest and recharge.

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