Why do we keep choosing the same type of person… even when we know how the story ends?

This episode dives into the attraction loop, the quiet psychological patterns, emotional habits, and familiar wounds that pull us toward the same partners. The same dynamics, and the same heartbreak.

We unpack why certain traits feel magnetic, why “chemistry” is often just familiarity in disguise, Why Everyone is Emotionally Unavailable right now, and why unresolved emotional patterns can make chaos feel like home.

You’ll learn how attraction loops form, what keeps you repeating the same relationships, how self-worth shapes your type, and the gentle, practical steps to break the cycle without losing yourself in the process.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re dating the same person in a different body…
If you’re healing from inconsistent love, intensity, or emotional unavailability…
If you’re finally ready to choose differently…and heal the heartbreak.

This is your soft, honest starting point.

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