In this week’s episode, I wanted to address the importance of choosing a man with a similar lifestyle as you. Many women are determining this once it is too late and they are breaking their own hearts! The reason why you have your three lists is so you can very quickly eliminate men who have qualities from the “Don’t Want” list. This includes lifestyle choices.
Things like whether he smokes, uses drugs, or drinks too much or he has kids and you don’t. Or if he has kids and doesn’t want more. He may have a very demanding job that requires odd hours or he hates dogs and you love them. All of these things must be discussed BEFORE you have fallen in love and before you have had sex with him. If you wait until AFTER that, it will be very hard to properly vet and qualify him without rationalizing or making excuses for him.
Take a listen to this week’s episode and let me know in the comments some of your lifestyle choices that you and your man must agree upon!
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