One of the most common challenges that I hear about from many couples in long term relationships is the reduction of sexual desire and passion within the relationship compared to how things were in the early days, and of course I've had my own experiences of this too!

This is such a common and very natural part of being in a long term relationship, and definitely doesn't automatically mean that there is something "WRONG" with the relationship or either of you!

It stands to reason that the sense of excitement, novelty and adventure that exists between us when we first meet is going to wain as we become much more familiar with each other over time, when the unknown becomes known. So how do we get the passion back?!?!

In this episode I discus this phenomenon in depth, aim to help you understand whats at play when this happens, what we need to be aware of in ourselves, and how we can intentionally create opportunities to put some fuel back on the passionate fire.

If you'd like to dive into this a little deeper then here's one way. I mention my online course Stoking the Fire which you can find here: https://www.nictovey.com/resources/

And of course, if you'd like to work with me 1 on 1 or as a couple then please get in touch here: [email protected]

I'd love to read your comments, questions and feedback!

Enjoy