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Reader’s Reflections: C. S. Lewis said, “Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” It strikes me that Elizabeth is defending Darcy to Wickham when the former isn’t even there to see her do it. She’s making amends for her mistakes even when the one who was hurt by them can’t see her amends. She’s just doing what is right because it’s right, not for the pat on the back. And, hmm… She had professed her strong feelings against Darcy quite animatedly to his face yet, she is angry at Wickham for having hurt him. It’s a good reminder not to talk about people behind their backs (unless I’m complimenting them!), and to defend those who are right when I hear others attacking them. James Fahy said, “Nothing unites humans like a common enemy,” and clearly that experience forged a quick (though surface) bond between Elizabeth and Wickham when they first met; but though sharing a quick laugh about a 3rdparty with a buddy may feel good in the moment, doesn’t it make each of them afraid of what the other says about him when he is not present? Stick up for people behind their backs, and the people you’re talking to will know that you’ll be sticking up for them behind their backs as well. Seems like this may be a bit of a Beauty and the Beast story – though both men are handsome, Wickham got all the manners and charm but none of the integrity; Darcy is awkward to the point of rudeness but seems to be the one who got all the virtue.
Reader’s Reflections: C. S. Lewis said, “Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” It strikes me that Elizabeth is defending Darcy to Wickham when the former isn’t even there to see her do it. She’s making amends for her mistakes even when the one who was hurt by them can’t see her amends. She’s just doing what is right because it’s right, not for the pat on the back. And, hmm… She had professed her strong feelings against Darcy quite animatedly to his face yet, she is angry at Wickham for having hurt him. It’s a good reminder not to talk about people behind their backs (unless I’m complimenting them!), and to defend those who are right when I hear others attacking them. James Fahy said, “Nothing unites humans like a common enemy,” and clearly that experience forged a quick (though surface) bond between Elizabeth and Wickham when they first met; but though sharing a quick laugh about a 3rdparty with a buddy may feel good in the moment, doesn’t it make each of them afraid of what the other says about him when he is not present? Stick up for people behind their backs, and the people you’re talking to will know that you’ll be sticking up for them behind their backs as well. Seems like this may be a bit of a Beauty and the Beast story – though both men are handsome, Wickham got all the manners and charm but none of the integrity; Darcy is awkward to the point of rudeness but seems to be the one who got all the virtue.