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In this episode of The Audacity!, we’re talking about villain energy-and why being misunderstood might be the most freeing thing that ever happens to you. 😈✨

This isn’t about manipulation or “playing the game.” It’s about becoming the hero in your own story… which means some people will absolutely cast you as the villain the moment you stop people-pleasing, stop over-explaining, and stop betraying yourself to keep others comfortable.

We unpack the shift from “princess era” (palatable, approved, performing) to “villain era” (self-assured, calm, unapologetically authentic), why projection isn’t feedback, and how your “no” can trigger people who benefited from your old availability. Plus, we pull in Wicked/Elphaba energy, the drama triangle, and real-life stories about boundaries, dating, and choosing peace over perception.

If you’re in your season of saying, “I’m not your hero—I’m mine,” this one’s for you.

In this episode, we cover:

• What “villain era” actually means (and what it’s not)
• Why being misunderstood can be a sign you’re healing
• The difference between people missing you vs. missing your availability
• Projection vs. truth: how to stop taking other people’s stories personally
• Why freedom often looks like a smaller circle
• How to choose yourself without guilt (and without ghosting)

🎧 Listen now and tell us: Are you in your villain era-or just done betraying yourself?