What if there’s more to life than what we can logically explain?

In this episode of The Audacity! Podcast, Amanda and Ashton get a little woo-woo and dive into the esoteric ideas and beliefs that have shaped how they see themselves, relationships, faith, purpose, and the world around them.

From self-awareness and free will to intuition, manifestation, energy, karma, faith, and the meaning we assign to signs and synchronicities, they explore what happens when you stop assuming everything has to fit neatly into a logical explanation.

They also talk about how our thoughts and identities shape the way we experience life, why difficult seasons can become opportunities for growth and redirection, the importance of human connection, and what it means to live in alignment with who you actually are.

You don't have to believe everything. You don't even have to understand everything.

But maybe life gets a little more interesting when you stay curious enough to consider the possibilities.

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How much of who you are is actually you, and how much has been shaped by a culture you don't even realize you're swimming in?

In this episode of The Audacity! Podcast, Amanda is joined by her fiancé, Antonio Varela, author of Americano, for a fascinating conversation about the invisible cultural forces that influence how we communicate, lead, work, build relationships, and see the world.

Born in Mexico, raised between Mexico and the United States, and having worked and traveled around the world, Antonio shares how experiencing different cultures firsthand led him to become fascinated by the behaviors we often mistake for personality.

They dive into individualism vs. collectivism, power distance, cultural attitudes toward time, workplace dynamics, vulnerability, gender roles, leadership, and why someone else's behavior may make a lot more sense once you understand the culture behind it.

At the heart of the conversation is one powerful idea: What if we became curious about people before we judged them?

Because sometimes the beliefs shaping us are so deeply embedded that we don't even realize they're there.

As the story goes: two young fish are swimming when an older fish asks, “How's the water?” After he swims away, one young fish turns to the other and asks, “What the hell is water?”

Maybe the first step toward understanding ourselves—and each other—is realizing we're already swimming in it.

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What if the life you want doesn’t require you to feel ready-it requires you to have the audacity to begin?

After an unexpected three-week break, Amanda and Ashton are back and getting very real about burnout, anxiety, survival mode, wedding stress, career pressure, and what happens when the life you worked so hard to create starts to feel… heavy.

Then we dive into The Audacity Theory: the idea that extraordinary lives are often created by people willing to act before they feel ready, ask before they know the answer will be yes, and believe they belong before anyone else does.

We talk about fear, the “terror barrier,” perfectionism, trusting yourself, taking action before you have everything figured out, and why other people’s criticism often says more about their own fears than your potential.

But there’s another side to audacity: sometimes the boldest thing you can do is rest, ask for help, set a boundary, or admit that something needs to change.

So instead of constantly asking, “What if it all goes wrong?” maybe it’s time to ask a different question:

What if it all works out?

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 Every couple wants a healthy relationship, but very few people know how to have healthy conflict. In this episode of The Audacity!, Amanda and Ashton dive into why disagreements don't mean you're incompatible, why repair is more important than perfection, and how conflict can actually strengthen trust instead of destroy it. They discuss emotional wounds, communication mistakes, repair after betrayal, why social media has changed relationships, and practical ways to approach difficult conversations with curiosity instead of defensiveness. If you've ever wondered whether fighting means your relationship is failing, this episode may completely change your perspective. 

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Breakups don't just end relationships, they can shake your identity, your future, and your sense of self. In this deeply honest episode, Amanda and Ashton share their own experiences navigating heartbreak, grief, codependency, healing, and finding themselves again after love ended.

From the first days of overwhelming pain to rebuilding confidence, setting boundaries, and creating a life you genuinely love, they discuss what actually helped them move forward, and the mistakes they wish they had avoided.

Whether you're in the middle of a breakup, supporting a friend through one, or still carrying wounds from a past relationship, this episode offers practical advice, emotional support, and hope that healing really is possible.

In this episode, we discuss:

•  The stages of grief after a breakup 
•  Why no-contact can accelerate healing 
•  How to stop romanticizing your ex 
•  Healthy ways to cope with heartbreak 
•  Rebuilding your identity after a relationship ends 
•  Why self-care is more than bubble baths 
•  The importance of therapy and leaning on friends 
•  Mistakes to avoid after a breakup 
•  Finding purpose and confidence again 
•  Turning pain into personal growth 

If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that this chapter isn't the end of their story.

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Travel is about so much more than vacations—it's about perspective, growth, and discovering who you are.

In this episode of The Audacity!, Amanda and Ashton share the travel experiences that transformed their lives, from mission trips and backpacking through Europe to Disney cruises, Monte Carlo, Vietnam, Banff, and beyond. They discuss culture shock, traveling on a budget, favorite destinations, overrated places, unforgettable memories, and why getting outside your comfort zone can change your life forever.

Whether you're planning your next adventure or dreaming about one, this episode will inspire you to see the world through a new lens.

In this episode, we discuss:

•  How travel shaped our identities 
•  The best countries and states we've visited 
•  Overrated destinations (our honest opinions!) 
•  Traveling with kids vs. traveling as a couple 
•  Budget travel tips 
•  Funny and unforgettable travel stories 
•  Culture shock and homesickness 
•  Why everyone should experience another culture at least once 
•  The life lessons travel teaches you 

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Dating has changed a lot over the last 30 years, and so have the rules. In this episode, Amanda and Ashton break down a modern list of dating "rules" inspired by a recent conversation on love, relationships, and what actually matters when looking for a partner. From breadcrumbing and texting habits to shared values, first-date red flags, paying the bill, talking about children, and they share personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and plenty of laughs along the way.

Whether you're dating, engaged, married, or just fascinated by modern relationships, this episode offers practical insights on building healthier connections and avoiding common pitfalls in today's dating world.

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This week on The Audacity!, Amanda and Ashton dive into one of the most debated relationship topics today: micro-cheating.

Is liking an ex's thirst trap harmless? What about flirty DMs, work spouses, keeping old flames on standby, or deleting messages your partner doesn't know about?

The conversation explores where attraction ends and emotional betrayal begins, why secrecy matters more than most people realize, and how trust is often broken long before physical cheating ever happens.

Amanda and Ashton share personal experiences, relationship boundaries, uncomfortable truths, and the importance of transparency, respect, and communication. They also discuss why every relationship has its own "contract," how past experiences shape our expectations, and the difference between honesty and emotional loyalty.

Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will challenge you to think about what trust, commitment, and respect truly look like in a modern relationship.

Topics Covered:

•  What micro-cheating actually means 
•  Emotional vs. physical betrayal 
•  Exes, social media, and thirst traps 
•  Work spouses and emotional attachments 
•  Pornography and emotional intimacy 
•  Transparency vs. secrecy 
•  Boundaries in relationships 
•  Trust repair after betrayal 
•  Why communication matters more than assumptions 
•  The role of self-respect in healthy relationships 

If you've ever wondered, "Would my partner be okay if I did this?" — this episode is for you.

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You got the promotion.

You bought the house.

You found the relationship.

You lost the weight.

So why do you still feel empty?

In this episode, Amanda and Ashton dive into the uncomfortable truth that achievement and fulfillment are not the same thing. They share personal stories about chasing success, validation, relationships, fitness goals, and external milestones, only to discover that none of them could create lasting self-worth.

Together they explore the difference between validation and fulfillment, why high achievers often struggle with feeling "enough," how unresolved wounds can drive achievement, and what actually creates a meaningful life.

If you've ever thought, "I'll be happy when..." this conversation is for you.

Because sometimes the thing you chased wasn't fulfillment.

It was validation.

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Why do some people grow through conflict… while others self-destruct from it?

In this episode of The Audacity, Amanda and Ashton dive deep into emotional maturity, emotional intelligence, attachment styles, self-awareness, triggers, relationships, conflict, healing, boundaries, and self-worth. They unpack how childhood wounds, insecurity, ego, and emotional reactions quietly shape our relationships and daily lives.

From breakups and anxiety spirals to emotional regulation and communication, they explore the difference between reacting emotionally and responding intentionally. They also discuss people-pleasing, overthinking, victim mentality, attachment wounds, relationship dynamics, self-respect, and how healing yourself changes the way you love others.

This episode is raw, reflective, funny, vulnerable, and full of real conversations about becoming emotionally healthier humans. If you’ve ever struggled with overreacting, taking things personally, shutting down, needing validation, or navigating difficult relationships… this episode is for you. 

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