How comfortable are you at allowing others to feel the painful consequences of their lack of responsibility?  How often are you tempted to step in with an adaptive or reactive manner that hinders others from taking responsibility?  We can not make another person responsible, the more we try to make them responsible, the less responsible they become.  However, we can reconnect others with the pain of their lack of responsibility in a way that both allows us to remain a non-anxious presence and helps them grow in their personal responsibility.  Learn how to step out of the responsibility triangle in both your parenting and your marriage so you can grow as a non-anxious presence in your home.