Remember the game telephone?
My ability to self-advocate is only ever as good as my ability to communicate.
How can I translate my self-awareness?
What are the descriptors of my experience?
How can I ensure that the message was received?
While I don't want to have to facilitate communication, I always lose if I don't.
It takes more energy and effort, but outcomes improve when I do that work.
What is the cost-benefit?
Doing the pre-work is part of this communication.