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Episode 16: Becoming a Deep Listener
Summary
In this conversation, Eddy Paul Thomas interviews Melissa Burnell, a therapist, about the importance of deep listening. Melissa shares her background in psychology and how she transitioned into mental health counseling. They discuss the challenges of deep listening, including distractions and the tendency to listen with preconceived assumptions. They also explore the impact of deep listening on relationships and resolving complex issues. Melissa explains how trauma can affect an individual's ability to listen deeply and offers strategies for supporting trauma survivors. They touch on the role of deep listening in addiction counseling and working with diverse communities, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and checking biases. Deep listening is measured by the presence of compassion and empathy in communication. It is a feeling that someone truly understands and reflects back what is being said. Deep listening can be practiced in various contexts, such as sales and leadership, by understanding and valuing what motivates others. It is important to eliminate distractions and be fully present in conversations. Cultural competency plays a role in deep listening, as different cultures have different communication styles. Mindfulness and emotional intelligence are key resources for developing deep listening skills.
Takeaways
- Deep listening involves setting aside preconceived assumptions and truly hearing the perspective of the other person.
Chapters
03:15 The Intersection of Communication and Mental Health
06:04 Improving Relationships and Resolving Complex Issues
08:07 Challenges and Strategies for Deep Listening
15:27 Deep Listening and Trauma
18:46 Deep Listening in Addiction Counseling
22:21 Cultural Sensitivity and Deep Listening
24:13 Curiosity and Checking Biases
28:29 Measuring Progress in Deep Listening
30:20 Motivation and Deep Listening in Sales and Leadership
32:20 Being Fully Present in Conversations
35:13 Cultural Competency in Deep Listening
39:07 Developing Deep Listening Skills with Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence
Get in Touch with Melissa:
Email: [email protected]
Resources
How to Listen with Intention: The Foundation of True Connection, Communication, and Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic)
Emotional Intelligence 2.0
You're Not Listening
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Learn more about the Unbroken Place Podcast at: www.eddypaulthomas.com/unbrokenplace
Discover the transformative power of empathy in both our personal lives and the workplace with the following resources:
- Ok...On Second Thought newsletter on Linkedin.
- Ok...On Second Thought articles.
- Ok...On Second Thought Resources for the Workplace.
Brought to you by Elevate 1 Consulting.
Produced by Say Some Thing Studios.
Music: "Open Door" & "I Dare You" by Little Glass Men from the free music archive. This work is openly licensed via CC BY 4.0.
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Summary
In this conversation, Eddy Paul Thomas interviews Melissa Burnell, a therapist, about the importance of deep listening. Melissa shares her background in psychology and how she transitioned into mental health counseling. They discuss the challenges of deep listening, including distractions and the tendency to listen with preconceived assumptions. They also explore the impact of deep listening on relationships and resolving complex issues. Melissa explains how trauma can affect an individual's ability to listen deeply and offers strategies for supporting trauma survivors. They touch on the role of deep listening in addiction counseling and working with diverse communities, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and checking biases. Deep listening is measured by the presence of compassion and empathy in communication. It is a feeling that someone truly understands and reflects back what is being said. Deep listening can be practiced in various contexts, such as sales and leadership, by understanding and valuing what motivates others. It is important to eliminate distractions and be fully present in conversations. Cultural competency plays a role in deep listening, as different cultures have different communication styles. Mindfulness and emotional intelligence are key resources for developing deep listening skills.
Takeaways
- Deep listening involves setting aside preconceived assumptions and truly hearing the perspective of the other person.
Chapters
03:15 The Intersection of Communication and Mental Health
06:04 Improving Relationships and Resolving Complex Issues
08:07 Challenges and Strategies for Deep Listening
15:27 Deep Listening and Trauma
18:46 Deep Listening in Addiction Counseling
22:21 Cultural Sensitivity and Deep Listening
24:13 Curiosity and Checking Biases
28:29 Measuring Progress in Deep Listening
30:20 Motivation and Deep Listening in Sales and Leadership
32:20 Being Fully Present in Conversations
35:13 Cultural Competency in Deep Listening
39:07 Developing Deep Listening Skills with Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence
Get in Touch with Melissa:
Email: [email protected]
Resources
How to Listen with Intention: The Foundation of True Connection, Communication, and Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic)
Emotional Intelligence 2.0
You're Not Listening
----more----
Learn more about the Unbroken Place Podcast at: www.eddypaulthomas.com/unbrokenplace
Discover the transformative power of empathy in both our personal lives and the workplace with the following resources:
- Ok...On Second Thought newsletter on Linkedin.
- Ok...On Second Thought articles.
- Ok...On Second Thought Resources for the Workplace.
Brought to you by Elevate 1 Consulting.
Produced by Say Some Thing Studios.
Music: "Open Door" & "I Dare You" by Little Glass Men from the free music archive. This work is openly licensed via CC BY 4.0.