*** Trigger Warning - Abuse, problematic dynamics, domestic abuse

Well Sh*t. It really is that simple - Episode 167 - "The Harm Dynamic (AKA the abuse dynamic) - focusing on actual harm and the impact of it" is now LIVE!

Full Show notes: https://bit.ly/WellShitEpisodeGuide

We've been talking about the shapes and approaches in the Interaction Dynamics for a while now, but there has always felt like there was something missing...until now. This episode is packed with brand new content that we are sharing for the very first time. Tune in and be among the first to be in the know as we introduce the newest shape in our series, the Harm Dynamic and switch the focus from approach to impact.

In this episode we cover:

• Just existing in the Empowerment Ecosystem
• What driving a manual shift car has to do with the Empowerment Ecosystem
• A child is always in victim, right!? - The question that inspired the shape
• Why do we need the Harm Dynamic shape?
• What is the Harm Dynamic
• The difference between impact and approach
• The four positions in the Harm Dynamic
• The approaches each of these positions can take
• How to intervene without rescuing
• How to find out if something else is going on
• Intervening in an emergency

Episode References:

• The C-word episode - Episode 19 - The C-word
• The Apology Blueprint episode - 156 - The 6 essential parts of an effective apology - Download The Apology Blueprint PDF here: https://theuniversalneeds.com/Apology
• The Selfirst episode - Episode 20 - Selfirst Series: What is Selfirst? Let's get specific…
• Niggles episode - Episode 61 - Friendship Series: Clearing Niggles
• The Victim Approach episode - Episode 159 - How to know if the way you're meeting your needs is disempowering (Shapes 1) - The Victim Approach
• The Persecutor Approach episode - 160 - How to know if the way you're meeting your needs is disempowering (Shapes 2) - The Persecutor Approach
• The Rescuer Approach episode - 161 - How to know if the way you're meeting your needs is disempowering (Shapes 3) - The Rescuer Approach
• The Rescuer Approach harm episode - Episode 162 - How to know if the way you're meeting your needs is disempowering (Shapes 4) - Why the Rescuer Approach is so harmful
• The Creator Approach episode - Episode 163 - How to meet your needs in empowering ways (Shapes 5) - The Creator Approach
• The Supporter Approach episode - Episode 164 - How to meet your needs in empowering ways (Shapes 6) - The Supporter Approach
• The Contributor Approach episode - Episode 165 - How to meet your needs in empowering ways (Shapes 7) - The Contributor Approach
• Moving from disempowering to empowering - Episode 166 - How to meet your needs in empowering ways (Shapes 8) - How to move from a disempowering approach to meeting your needs to an empowering one

Resources:

• Click here to download the companion PDF to this episode (and the rest of the Interaction Dynamics series): https://theuniversalneeds.com/The-Interaction-Dynamics
• We are unable to find a clip however the Punky Brewster episode about learning to drive is Season 4, episode 9 - "See You in Court"
• Fishing boat captain video - confrontation begins at 6:09 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuxV5hesA1U

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