What do you do when you children just refuse to do what you ask them? or any small thing is cause for a full blown fight? when you have two minutes to do something and they decide to go on the opposite direction? As parents, we tend to think they are pushing us, but they are not. We also say, they are just seeking attention, and that is true. The important part is to understand, why are they seeking attention? and specially, that kind of attention. In this video I explain how and why children go from good attention to bad attention and what you can do about it.