What do you do when your child is throwing the biggest tantrum on earth? What can you do in the heat of the moment, when they are just not attending to reason? This is the one million dollar question. The answer is obvious but very few people seem to want to accept it: not much. There is not a lot you can do in that moment and most likely, whatever you do it will make things worse. So, how do we go about it? In this video I want to share with you the very simple, yet effective strategy of Before - During - After to deal with those situations.