Living with your Thoughts

Episode 188 Why knowing your Value changes Everything


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This episode explores the life-changing power of knowing your value. So many people feel directionless, unsettled, and constantly seek external validation — not realising that a lack of self-worth is often the root cause.

Key Talking Points:

  • Why It Truly Matters:When you know your value, you stop settling. You say no with clarity, choose jobs and relationships that align with your worth, and protect your mental health. Self-worth becomes an internal compass — not dictated by external validation.
  • Value vs. Values:This episode focuses on your value — the gifts you naturally bring to the table — not just your principles or beliefs. It’s about owning your contribution, regardless of titles, degrees, or praise.
  • The Invisible Armour of Self-Worth:Knowing your value gives you emotional resilience. Rejection might hurt, but it won’t define you. It sets the tone for how others treat you and helps you build respectful boundaries.
  • Confidence Without Ego:When your confidence is rooted in self-worth, you don’t need to over explain, compete, or seek applause. You show up quietly, but powerfully.
  • How to Start Connecting With Your Value:
  1. Self-awareness – Identify your natural strengths, gifts, and what energises you.
  2. Know your core values – Define and live by the principles that guide you.
  3. Track your impact – Reflect on how you’re already adding value.
  4. Define yourself – Set boundaries and don’t let others determine your worth.
  5. Act your way into self-worth – Confidence grows through consistent action.
  6. Use feedback wisely – Learn from it, but always run it through your filter.
  • What Doesn't Determine Your Value:Job titles, relationship status, productivity, or external opinions.
  • What Does:The unique impact you make, the presence you bring, and the authenticity you live by.

Takeaway Message:You don’t need to be loud to be valuable or perfect to be worthy. Your quiet confidence, honesty, and ability to show up as your full self — that’s your value. Let this episode remind you: You are valuable. You are needed. Your presence matters.

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Living with your ThoughtsBy Tracy Moxey