Sometimes, we have tried everything and the negative behaviour keeps occurring. We try to keep calm and eventually, arguments happen. To make things worse, it seems the children keep pushing us further and further.

What do we do? how do we disrupt this pattern?

In this episode I share with you an idea that I call "the nuclear option". I don't advice anybody to create it, but if things have gone wrong, here is something you can do instead of kiss, make up and wait for the next argument to happen. This idea is about disrupting that pattern. It's not easy and it's not specially nice to do (or at least, I find it difficult and uncomfortable) but it works.