One of the main reasons is because of a lack of understanding that everything requires effort and work if you want to succeed. A relationship requires effort and work but today unfortunately due to having a fixed mindset and poor conditioning everyone wants everything for nothing and simply goes on how they feel all the time. Most people today think that as soon as something requires work and effort that something is wrong. There is no way you will be successful if you simply do what you feel all the time. So let's get our thinking right so we can become successful