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Alternative title: The Buffet Is Open (and Jeffrey's Not Invited)
In this episode of Home to Me, we go back to the why. Why does self-trust matter so deeply? Why do defensiveness, insecurity, and people-pleasing steal so much from us? Through a story of meetings, metaphors, and missed ETF lessons, therapist and host Steph unpacks what it really means to come home to yourself — and how being liked, or not, has shaped so much of what we do. You'll walk away with a grounded sense of why self-trust is the foundation of inner freedom, plus a powerful exercise to uncover what's really driving your discomfort. It's tender, funny, and real. You're in the right place. Welcome Home
SHOW NOTESEpisode 2 – The Cost of Being Liked (And Why Self-Trust Is Worth More)
In this episode, you'll hear:
A before-and-after story of meetings, self-doubt, and reclaiming your attention
Why discomfort can feel like danger — and how to tell the difference
A metaphorical buffet vs. a metaphorical spotlight: which one are you living under?
A grounding practice to bring joy and self-connection into your day
A powerful journaling/therapy-style prompt to uncover your core fear behind discomfort
Why self-trust is the foundation of true belonging
Takeaway quote: "Self-trust is learning that you are liked, valued, and you belong — without needing anyone else to verify it for you."
Action step for listeners: Notice something small you did today that brought you comfort, joy, or choice — and celebrate it out loud like you're parenting your inner child.
By Steph VenterAlternative title: The Buffet Is Open (and Jeffrey's Not Invited)
In this episode of Home to Me, we go back to the why. Why does self-trust matter so deeply? Why do defensiveness, insecurity, and people-pleasing steal so much from us? Through a story of meetings, metaphors, and missed ETF lessons, therapist and host Steph unpacks what it really means to come home to yourself — and how being liked, or not, has shaped so much of what we do. You'll walk away with a grounded sense of why self-trust is the foundation of inner freedom, plus a powerful exercise to uncover what's really driving your discomfort. It's tender, funny, and real. You're in the right place. Welcome Home
SHOW NOTESEpisode 2 – The Cost of Being Liked (And Why Self-Trust Is Worth More)
In this episode, you'll hear:
A before-and-after story of meetings, self-doubt, and reclaiming your attention
Why discomfort can feel like danger — and how to tell the difference
A metaphorical buffet vs. a metaphorical spotlight: which one are you living under?
A grounding practice to bring joy and self-connection into your day
A powerful journaling/therapy-style prompt to uncover your core fear behind discomfort
Why self-trust is the foundation of true belonging
Takeaway quote: "Self-trust is learning that you are liked, valued, and you belong — without needing anyone else to verify it for you."
Action step for listeners: Notice something small you did today that brought you comfort, joy, or choice — and celebrate it out loud like you're parenting your inner child.