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Episode 20: 23 Ways To Destroy Your Marriage
DATE: August 23, 2023
PODCAST: A chat with Agata
EPISODE: 23 Ways To Destroy Your Marriag
Summary:
In this episode, I'll guide you through the often unnoticed pitfalls that can jeopardize a relationship.
We'll discuss the risks of overstepping boundaries, like being too motherly, and the importance of striking a balance in self-care. Unpack the potential harm of spinning stories about your partner and understand the deep significance of honest communication.
Together, we'll journey towards the beauty of self-acceptance and the profound impact it has on nurturing genuine love.
Key Topic Timestamps:
Introduction [0:00] - In this episode I will be guiding you through the rocky paths that can ruin a marriage. Be prepared to take some hard-hitting notes!
Act Like a Mother Instead of a Partner [3:46] - Are you mothering your spouse? This could be the first step towards a disastrous relationship. Let's delve into why this is not the way to go if you're aiming for a harmonious relationship.
Be Emotionally Needy [9:10] - Do you expect your partner to fill the emotional voids in your life? That's a lot of pressure for one person to handle. Let me tell you why this approach can backfire and how you need to fill that void within yourself first.
Make Yourself a Priority [15:58] - Being a little selfish is healthy, but too much can be poisonous. We'll explore the fine line between self-care and depriving your spouse of his needs and interests.
Don't Let Him Visit or Care for His Family [20:18] - Got issues with his mom? You're not alone, but stopping him from visiting family can create long-lasting damage. I'll explain why.
Don't Make Him Feel Bad About Working Late [25:59] - Work-life balance is crucial, but making him feel guilty for working late isn't the solution. Let's get into how this can actually worsen your relationship.
Make False Stories About Your Partner [29:43] - Creating narratives in your mind can lead to false expectations and disappointments. I'll share why this is harmful and what you can do to change it.
Speak from Your Heart Instead of Your Ego [34:03] - True communication starts with authenticity. In this segment, I'll highlight why it's detrimental to let past traumas dictate your dialogue and how speaking genuinely from the heart can rejuvenate your relationship.
Accept Yourself and Heal From Within [39:14] - A fulfilling relationship begins with self-love. We'll explore the importance of embracing your true self, understanding the role of self-worth in love, and why healing your internal wounds can have an astonishingly positive effect on your partnership.
Click the link to join my program which starts in September :) https://bit.ly/3QUwKf5
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By Agata LangerDATE: August 23, 2023
PODCAST: A chat with Agata
EPISODE: 23 Ways To Destroy Your Marriag
Summary:
In this episode, I'll guide you through the often unnoticed pitfalls that can jeopardize a relationship.
We'll discuss the risks of overstepping boundaries, like being too motherly, and the importance of striking a balance in self-care. Unpack the potential harm of spinning stories about your partner and understand the deep significance of honest communication.
Together, we'll journey towards the beauty of self-acceptance and the profound impact it has on nurturing genuine love.
Key Topic Timestamps:
Introduction [0:00] - In this episode I will be guiding you through the rocky paths that can ruin a marriage. Be prepared to take some hard-hitting notes!
Act Like a Mother Instead of a Partner [3:46] - Are you mothering your spouse? This could be the first step towards a disastrous relationship. Let's delve into why this is not the way to go if you're aiming for a harmonious relationship.
Be Emotionally Needy [9:10] - Do you expect your partner to fill the emotional voids in your life? That's a lot of pressure for one person to handle. Let me tell you why this approach can backfire and how you need to fill that void within yourself first.
Make Yourself a Priority [15:58] - Being a little selfish is healthy, but too much can be poisonous. We'll explore the fine line between self-care and depriving your spouse of his needs and interests.
Don't Let Him Visit or Care for His Family [20:18] - Got issues with his mom? You're not alone, but stopping him from visiting family can create long-lasting damage. I'll explain why.
Don't Make Him Feel Bad About Working Late [25:59] - Work-life balance is crucial, but making him feel guilty for working late isn't the solution. Let's get into how this can actually worsen your relationship.
Make False Stories About Your Partner [29:43] - Creating narratives in your mind can lead to false expectations and disappointments. I'll share why this is harmful and what you can do to change it.
Speak from Your Heart Instead of Your Ego [34:03] - True communication starts with authenticity. In this segment, I'll highlight why it's detrimental to let past traumas dictate your dialogue and how speaking genuinely from the heart can rejuvenate your relationship.
Accept Yourself and Heal From Within [39:14] - A fulfilling relationship begins with self-love. We'll explore the importance of embracing your true self, understanding the role of self-worth in love, and why healing your internal wounds can have an astonishingly positive effect on your partnership.
Click the link to join my program which starts in September :) https://bit.ly/3QUwKf5