Discover why Pam believes in staying open to possibilities rather than adhering to strict dating checklists. The hosts debate the merits of having a "must-have" list versus going with your gut. Can you truly find love if you're too rigid in your expectations? Or does flexibility lead to settling for less than you deserve?

The episode takes a poignant turn as they read a heartbreaking letter from a listener whose husband never says "I love you." Tom and Pam offer their perspectives on the importance of verbal affirmation in relationships and discuss whether actions truly speak louder than words. Should you stay in a marriage that's mostly satisfying but lacking in crucial expressions of love?

Get ready for an honest conversation about love languages, communication, and the challenges of long-term commitment. The hosts share personal experiences and offer advice on when to seek therapy and how to determine if a relationship is meeting your needs. Can couples overcome fundamental differences in how they express affection?

Don't miss this episode packed with relationship insights, dating wisdom, and candid reflections on love. Whether you're single, coupled up, or somewhere in between, The Talking Phase offers valuable perspectives on navigating the complex world of modern relationships. Tune in now and join the conversation!