Do you ever look at your husband and think "damn, I wish I was a dad"?

Traditional gender roles don't quite hold as much space as they used to so why are we still looking at dads as being the secondary parent? 

Why are moms shown less grace when it comes to average parenting "mishaps" when compared to dads? 

We only manage to scratch the surface of a conversation that needs to be had as a society. 

Dads are the parent too. Full stop.