Ever “listened” so well you deserved a trophy… and still got in trouble?
Let’s fix that with 6 simple listening practices that work at home and at work.

Most of us confuse hearing with listening. Hearing is audio. Listening is connection. And when listening breaks down, relationships get tense, distance grows, and at work you get the same messy conversations on repeat—plus rework, resentment, and escalation.

In this episode of Just Human, Jay Boykin shares practical, repeatable listening skills you can use immediately—no therapy speak, no fluff. You’ll learn how to make people feel accurately understood, reduce conflict, and create clarity that actually moves things forward.

Timestamps / Key Takeaways

• 0:01 Why “hearing” isn’t listening
• 7:20 The office bridge: how bad listening creates rework
• 9:05 #1 Comfort vs solutions (what do they need?)
• 12:12 #2 Mirror the last 3–5 words
• 15:50 #3 Name the emotion (validation ≠ agreement)
• 17:31 #4 “What did I miss?” summary
• 19:44 #5 Ask one deepening question
• 21:02 #6 Close the loop with action
• 26:09 Bonus: the phone-down pro tip

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