The Business of Love

Episode #24 How to Tame Your Man

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Episode #23: How to Tame Your Man 

  • Changing Behavior - Adjusting Behavior
    • Two ppl from two different worlds
  • Never come at or attack your man for something he’s done. (Push - Push back)
  • Adjusting behavior slowly but surely:  HOW.
    • Shaping behavior - Skinner
  • Acknowledge Small wins (too many ppl only recognize the “wrongs”)
  • Know it’s gonna take some time - Patience & Grace

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    • Frame question in a curiosity frame vs accusatory tone - 
      • Come from a place of love
  • Softeners
    • Because I care about our relationship
  • “I need your help on something” 
  • I’m having a hard time with this… 
  • I’m concerned about...

    • Action Steps

    1. Never attack your partner for something they've done.

    2. Realize there will be challenges along the way

    3. Changing behavior is a process. 

    4. Acknowledge "Winning" Behavior

    5. Approach with Love

    6. Use Curiosity Frames 

     

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