Episode #33: Do the Work, Just don’t Talk About It

We see people talking about what they are going to do or what they should do in the areas of personal development and religion

People talk about change but they don’t really do it

Secondary gain - they get to complain and talk about how dramatic their life is yet they get to talk about how much they know. A need for recognition - instead of actually live it, they just talk about it

The problem with that is, (at first, the person is awesome - but then after a time you find out it’s not the truth and you lose respect

Often times we know so many tools to help our lives and relationships yet, once we stop reading the book, leave church or the seminar, we tend to not utilize or put into action what we’ve learned. 

Why? We truly are creatures of habit… We have to replace behaviors not just change behaviors. 

Why be attached to the drama of your life? If you talk about God principles or personal development tools, work with them and put them into action daily

Action Steps:

• When you’re tempted to go into the drama or story about something you’re experiencing, stop and ask yourself… 

• If we’re talking to you then attempt to be more cognizant of things that you’re sharing - have more discretion about what you're sharing. 

• Start out small and then go and complete something. 

Another secondary gain is the insecurity so they can prove that they’re so knowledgeable.  (You see this in business all the time)

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