What are the tender, raw, exposed parts of my life right now?

How does living through a pandemic and the impact of racial injustices keep show up as overwhelm in my world and yours?

My wife recently told me she has a crush on someone.

Having survived infidelity together, we rewrote the rules of our relationship.

When my body, identity, sense of attractiveness, have all taken hits because of illness and pain, this crush and her keeping it from me, have felt really hard.

How do you navigate crushes in your relationship?