In today's episode, we are going to explore the concept of romance and how it affects our arousal.  While many husbands often think that"romance is too much work," the wives are often thinking something similar, wondering why they should have to do all the work, as they long for romance to spark their arousal.  But as we shift our thinking just a little bit, both husband and wife can challenge themselves to look at romance with a new perspective.  Listen in as we explore some of the aspects of romance, like gazing into each others eyes, that can really help spark the type of arousal that most women want to experience.  I even share a story of how some of my senses really came into play unexpectedly at The French Laundry, which had me fully aroused long before the meal was over.