What if the life you're chasing—the promotions, the bigger house, the perfect online image—is a life that almost no one actually wants? We've all been running a race, but today we explore a powerful idea that suggests we've been measuring our lives all wrong.

In this episode, Lisa Thal challenges conventional definitions of success by introducing the work of Dr. Todd Rose. We explore his research on "collective illusions," where we conform to ideas we think everyone else believes, even when we privately disagree. This leads to the biggest illusion of all: success.

Dr. Rose's Success Index reveals that most Americans privately value relationships, integrity, community engagement, and personal growth far more than status or money. Lisa shares her own powerful story of redefining success, stepping away from a 38-year career to care for her mother with dementia and spend more time with her wife, Olivia. She traded status for significance.

To help you find your own definition of a good life, Lisa provides a simple five-step playbook to align your actions with your values.

What is one metric of success you are ready to drop, and what is one new, value-based metric you are prepared to adopt?

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