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Episode 28 - From the Actual Circus to the Circus of Divorce - Judith Weigle


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In this conversation, Kevin Davis interviews Judith Weigle, an amicable divorce expert and mediator. They discuss various aspects of divorce, including personal experiences, the challenges of divorce mediation, the role of divorce attorneys, and changing perceptions of divorce. They also explore the impact of divorce on children, overcoming adversity, teaching responsibility, and the value of challenges and hardships. They conclude by discussing how men can navigate divorce and the importance of supporting men who have been crushed by circumstances. This conversation explores the emotional impact of divorce on men, the importance of fatherhood, the issue of parental alienation, legal challenges faced by men, balancing work and fatherhood, and resources available for men going through divorce.

Takeaways

  • Divorce mediation offers a more amicable approach to divorce, fostering a less adversarial process.
  • Choose divorce attorneys prioritizing clients' best interests and cost-effectiveness.
  • Evolve the perception of divorce; it can be a positive step toward personal growth and happiness.
  • Prioritize children's well-being post-divorce with love, support, and stability.
  • Overcoming challenges fosters personal growth; embrace adversity as an opportunity for improvement.
  • Teach children responsibility for resilience and preparation for adulthood.
  • Support men in divorce, addressing unique challenges and societal stereotypes.
  • Help men rebuild confidence post-divorce, especially in the face of financial difficulties.
  • Ensure equal opportunities for men in fatherhood post-divorce.
  • Address and prevent harmful parental alienation behaviors.
  • Seek lawyers specializing in men's rights for legal challenges in divorce proceedings.
  • Balance work and fatherhood, prioritizing quality time with children.
  • Access resources like coaching and communication skills training for navigating divorce and co-parenting challenges.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting Up

02:30 Discussing Divorce and Personal Experiences

03:40 Transitioning to Divorce Mediation

08:58 The Challenges of Divorce Mediation

12:14 The Role of Divorce Attorneys

15:29 Changing Perceptions of Divorce

19:26 The Impact of Divorce on Children

22:16 Overcoming Adversity and Personal Growth

24:25 The Value of Challenges and Hardships

27:38 Teaching Responsibility and Independence

31:11 Reflecting on Leaving Home at a Young Age

35:13 Homeschooling and Divorce Mediation

38:40 Navigating Divorce as a Man

41:46 Challenging Stereotypes and Expressing Needs

42:36 Supporting Men Crushed by Circumstances

43:05 The Emotional Impact of Divorce

46:50 The Importance of Fatherhood

51:07 Parental Alienation

55:40 Legal Challenges for Men

01:02:56 Balancing Work and Fatherhood

01:05:31 Resources for Men Going Through Divorce

About Judith:

Judith M. Weigle is an experienced divorce mediator, divorce negotiator, and communication specialist, with a demonstrated history of success in alternative dispute resolution in family law. She has a huge capacity to listen, and an innate ability to perceive nuances in communication to aid in settlement success. Judith's philosophy: Be Honest, Speak From the Heart, and Take Responsibility for Your Actions.

http://www.divorceresourceinc.com/

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