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Episode 3: 50/50 Stepmum Life: Resentment, Guilt & Learning to Bond
For stepmum support, tools, workshops and coaching, visit: https://stepmumspace.com
Episode Summary
In this episode, Katie talks to Annabelle* (not her real name), a stepmum to a 15-year-old boy. Annabelle shares the reality of meeting and building a life with a partner who has 50/50 care of his son, and how over six years they’ve moved from challenging behaviours into becoming a close, connected trio.
She also talks candidly about the guilt and resentment she has sometimes felt, the confusion around her role, and the emotional discomfort that can come with situations like school events, transitions, and navigating being the “other” adult in the room.
This is an honest, relatable conversation for any stepmum navigating 50/50 custody, bonding challenges, or the emotional load of blended family life.
In This Episode We Explore
- What 50/50 care looks and feels like for a stepmum
- Bonding with a stepchild over time
- Resentment, guilt and emotional burnout
- Feeling unsure of your role as a step-parent
- School events and public moments that feel uncomfortable
- Living with behaviours that feel difficult or triggering
- The emotional impact of being the “in-between” parent
- What slowly builds real connection in stepfamilies
- What helps stepmums feel steadier and more in control
These themes reflect the most common things stepmums search for when looking for advice, direction and emotional support.
If This Resonates
For boundaries support, emotional tools and stepmum-specific guidance, visit: https://stepmumspace.com
Who This Episode Is For
- Stepmums navigating 50/50 custody arrangements
- Women dealing with resentment, guilt or burnout
- Anyone unsure of their role as a step-parent
- Stepmums wanting to understand connection and bonding
- Listeners needing stepmum support, clarity and reassurance
- Anyone searching for honest, real stepmum stories
Helpful Links
Stepmum Space website: https://stepmumspace.com
Instagram: @stepmumspace
1:1 Coaching & Couples Coaching: https://stepmumspace.com
You’re not alone. Your feelings make sense. And whenever you're ready for support that truly helps, Stepmum Space is here.
Support the show
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By Katie SouthFor stepmum support, tools, workshops and coaching, visit: https://stepmumspace.com
Episode Summary
In this episode, Katie talks to Annabelle* (not her real name), a stepmum to a 15-year-old boy. Annabelle shares the reality of meeting and building a life with a partner who has 50/50 care of his son, and how over six years they’ve moved from challenging behaviours into becoming a close, connected trio.
She also talks candidly about the guilt and resentment she has sometimes felt, the confusion around her role, and the emotional discomfort that can come with situations like school events, transitions, and navigating being the “other” adult in the room.
This is an honest, relatable conversation for any stepmum navigating 50/50 custody, bonding challenges, or the emotional load of blended family life.
In This Episode We Explore
- What 50/50 care looks and feels like for a stepmum
- Bonding with a stepchild over time
- Resentment, guilt and emotional burnout
- Feeling unsure of your role as a step-parent
- School events and public moments that feel uncomfortable
- Living with behaviours that feel difficult or triggering
- The emotional impact of being the “in-between” parent
- What slowly builds real connection in stepfamilies
- What helps stepmums feel steadier and more in control
These themes reflect the most common things stepmums search for when looking for advice, direction and emotional support.
If This Resonates
For boundaries support, emotional tools and stepmum-specific guidance, visit: https://stepmumspace.com
Who This Episode Is For
- Stepmums navigating 50/50 custody arrangements
- Women dealing with resentment, guilt or burnout
- Anyone unsure of their role as a step-parent
- Stepmums wanting to understand connection and bonding
- Listeners needing stepmum support, clarity and reassurance
- Anyone searching for honest, real stepmum stories
Helpful Links
Stepmum Space website: https://stepmumspace.com
Instagram: @stepmumspace
1:1 Coaching & Couples Coaching: https://stepmumspace.com
You’re not alone. Your feelings make sense. And whenever you're ready for support that truly helps, Stepmum Space is here.
Support the show