We’ve both walked down the aisle and let us be the first to say, it’s not the most graceful of journeys. Most of us will only have one wedding in our lifetime and the pressure to plan the perfect day can seem insurmountable. Today we’re sharing our biggest wedding planning wins and fails with the hope of helping you have more of the first and less of the second.

Like what ya hear? Feel free to steal these ideas for your own! Maybe just, ya know, invite us to your wedding as a thank you. We may not be the most well behaved, but we’ll definitely give you a night to remember.

…welp, now we made it sound like we’re ladies of the night, which we’re not (no disrespect to those who are. Unlike that one gym facing several lawsuits, we truly are judgement-free). We know it’s your wedding and it’s all about you and your wants, but let’s not get too crazy.

Unless you’ve got an open bar, then we’ll talk.

Check out our lovely friend/wedding photographer. She’s super talented and her domain name rhymes: danitphotography.com