There are a lot of different messages being put out in the world today.  A celebrity's t-shirt caught my eye recently because it had the phrase "Blame Everyone" in bold letters written across the front.  We all face hard times and go through our challenges.  And we all suffer, as well.  Sadly, when blame is our go-to, it keeps us as the victim if no one else makes the changes we are seeking.  And this is a very disempowering way to live.  But what if we choose to use our higher brain, and try to take the higher road of compassion in our marriage instead... compassion for our own suffering and compassion for the suffering of our spouse.  Now this can make quite a difference.  Listen in as I share two personal experiences that have to do with compassion and how they changed both me, personally, and my marriage for the better!