It is so important to become conscious of whether we are carrying a victim mentality or a responsibility mentality. It's not that we may be 100% in one but we definitely need to have a high percentage of responsibility developing in our devotional life. When we are triggered and when things happen outside of us that is the exact moment to discover whether you have a victim mentality, which leads the inability to actually fix the situation or yourself. There is no possibility of growth or fast growth unless we cultivate a mindset and heart of taking responsibility 100% or at least 50% to start with of everything that happens to us.