Is modern dating truly harder for men or women? While men struggle to get matches and responses, women face an overwhelming flood of inappropriate messages and time-wasters. This heated debate explores the raw reality of dating apps, ghosting culture, and why finding love seems harder than ever before in 2024.

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the controversial world of dating apps, sharing personal experiences and shocking statistics. From Tom's revealing dating calculator that shows it takes 60-70 hours just to secure a second date, to Pam's insights about managing hundreds of incoming messages, this episode exposes the stark differences between male and female dating experiences.

The hosts tackle the age-old question of whether men and women can truly be "just friends," sparked by a listener's email about his girlfriend's close male friend. Can you trust platonic friendships when there's a romantic history? Should you ever ask someone to end a friendship for a relationship?

Featuring exciting updates about upcoming concerts (including Gracie Abrams and Pearl Jam), holiday celebrations, and the podcast's growing success as a top 25 video podcast. Plus, don't miss Tom's expert advice on handling jealousy and Pam's powerful stance on maintaining friendships while dating.

This must-watch episode concludes with practical advice for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape, whether you're swiping right or trying to maintain boundaries in your current relationship. Plus, find out how you can participate in Tom's dating calculator study!