Are you too independent for love? At what point does being comfortable with your single life actually start sabotaging your chances at finding a meaningful relationship? When you've built a life you absolutely love, is it even worth risking it all for romance?

Join hosts Tom and Pam as they dive deep into the complex world of dating after divorce in 2025. They explore the delicate balance between maintaining independence and allowing vulnerability in relationships, sharing their personal experiences with everything from secret morning workout routines to nighttime skincare rituals that they're hesitant to share with potential partners.

The episode tackles the challenging reality of modern relationships: how do you merge two completely independent lives without losing yourself in the process? Tom opens up about his new relationship and the internal struggle of potentially disrupting his peaceful single life, while Pam shares insights about her journey of self-discovery and what she's learned about maintaining boundaries.

They also address a listener's dilemma about a boyfriend requesting appearance changes, sparking an honest discussion about double standards in relationships and when it's appropriate to ask your partner to change. The hosts explore the fine line between helpful suggestions and controlling behavior.

This thought-provoking episode wraps up with practical advice about finding the balance between independence and interdependence, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape while trying to maintain their sense of self.