Growing up, we practically watched our dads, consciously or unconsciously hide their emotions, we found ourselves imitating some of their acts, some good ones and other bad ones, we all say our dad are super heroes, because we hardly see them show emotions especially their vulnerability side. We grow up masking that foot prints, which is good, being a super heroes are great, but superhero sometimes needs support, this part not every man , husband or father teach their boys this or tell them this, which eventually turned to masking of too many emotions, that you can’t handle by yourself anymore. It’s either affect you or people around you. One way or the other, the emotions you hide eventually come out on their own.