In this week’s episode, I discuss the importance of giving a man lots of space when you are being courted by him. If you’re familiar with the saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” than you will understand exactly what this means when you’re done listening to this week’s episode. Many ladies believe my methods for coaching and counseling regarding relationships to be too “old fashioned” and “outdated”. I disagree and I think it’s time we got back to what worked for our grandmother’s and their mothers!

I teach the “feminine power” way and that means that for women, their strength is in their feminine energy! You may have been raised with brothers like I was and understand the male mind. Don’t be mistaken though; you will get farther much faster with men when operating from your feminine energy. There are some things that are hard-wired in men and women, biologically. I teach men and women instead of fighting against it, to embrace and celebrate it!

One of the books I encourage my clients to read through is a classic called “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” by Dr. John Gray. In this book, Dr. Gray speaks about how men are like “rubber bands” and that they need to pull away often but will spring back when you give them the time they need to go into their “caves”. He encourages women to avoid chasing them or trying to make them happy but to focus more on what they need to do to make THEMSELVES happy! This book was written in 1998 but the information contained in it is still very relevant! Dr. Gray has also written an update to this information in his newest book, “Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills For Todays Modern World”. You can get both of them by clicking the link below.

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today’s Complex World