In today’s episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love podcast, we dive deep into the real-life challenges couples face around shared decision making—from everyday choices to major life transitions and even moments of intimacy. 

Hosts Kim and Kyle explore how traditional power dynamics, cultural and faith backgrounds, and unspoken expectations can leave one or both partners feeling unheard, disconnected, or resentful.

You’ll hear why simply “checking the box” or putting one partner’s needs first isn’t enough for a healthy, fulfilling relationship. 

Instead, true connection happens when both voices are valued, vulnerability is welcomed, and decisions are made together—whether about family, finances, or the bedroom.

Key Takeaways:

• Why shared decision making is the foundation of secure love
• How gender roles and cultural messages can undermine intimacy
• The risks of caretaking and “going through the motions”
• The power of voicing your needs and desires
• Strategies to move from power struggles to partnership
• How to slow down and talk about what really matters in decision moments

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Until next time, stay connected and love fully. ❤️

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