Are you terrified of being alone? Does the thought of living by yourself make you want to jump into a relationship - any relationship - just to avoid it? In this raw and revealing episode of The Talking Phase, hosts Tom and Pam dive deep into the psychology of why we fear solitude and how it impacts our dating choices.

When Pam's daughter recently moved out, she faced her ultimate fear: living alone for the first time. She candidly shares how this experience forced her to confront her pattern of staying in unfulfilling relationships just to avoid being solo. Meanwhile, Tom brings his perspective on taking time between relationships to truly heal and become whole.

The hosts tackle a provocative listener question about finances in dating - when is it appropriate to ask about someone's credit score and savings? This sparks a heated debate about money, privilege, and relationship expectations in your 40s and 50s. Tom shares his experience of rebuilding financially post-divorce while Pam questions whether financial status should be a dating dealbreaker.

Between discussing Sebastian Maniscalco's comedy show, National Popcorn Day celebrations, and Pam's hilarious rejection of a Cybertruck-driving date, the episode perfectly balances deep insights with laugh-out-loud moments. The hosts explore how dating apps, fear of loneliness, and financial compatibility all intersect in modern relationships.

This episode is perfect for anyone navigating single life, dealing with an empty nest, or wondering how to approach money conversations in dating. Join Tom and Pam as they offer both wisdom and witty banter about finding happiness - whether you're alone or coupled up.