In this week’s episode, I discuss a coaching client of mine who struggles with self-reflection and becoming more self-aware. Yes, I had to say the words “Sis, it’s YOU!” to her more than a few times in our session. And I am seeing this more and more with other clients that I coach for dating. Many of these women want to take the approach “love me or leave me” when it comes to love and dating. They honestly believe (or perhaps have been sold) the mindset that they will not have to CHANGE in order to be in a healthy, loving relationship.

It’s important to be able to recognize those “love blocks” that we all have. Whether it’s your defeatist words that are repelling love and men, or your patterns that you seem to repeat over and over again. Taking some time to self analyze what is happening and why is going to help you on your journey to lasting love and self-acceptance.

I want to encourage you to consider working with a dating coach to truly understand what’s keeping you from creating that amazing relationship in your life. You can talk with me on Zoom or Skype or by telephone for a FREE 15 minute coaching consultation. Schedule your consult by clicking here. I also want to give you a free gift! My Relationship Autopsy worksheet to complete. Fill it out for the last 3 to 4 people that you have dated or been in a relationship to determine if there are any patterns in your dating life that could be hindering you. Download your copy here.