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Episode 38 - Why telling anyone else how they ‘should’ meet their own needs is a big no-no

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Well Sh*t. It really is that simple - Episode 38 - Why telling anyone else how they ‘should’ meet their own needs is a big no-no - is now LIVE!

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So often in our attempt to try to 'help' the people around us, we can find ourselves telling them what they should be doing to get their needs met. Not only is this very rarely helpful, but it can actually end up compromising your OWN needs too! Want to find out more...today we talk all about this, as well as an additional minisode on how to meet your needs in different circumstances!

In this episode we cover:

  • A little minisode on how to meet your needs in different circumstances
    • How to learn what meets your needs, without knowing what will meet them
    • How to create habits around meeting your needs
    • How your value and personal power needs come up when superiority comes into the equation
    • The incident that prompted this episode
    • Why it's rarely helpful to tell someone else how to meet their needs
    • Where the reaction is coming from when someone says something that impacts you
    • The ways in which a 'well intentioned' comment about what someone should or shouldn't do can negatively impact someone
    • Why this applies in business too, and how it can harm you, especially when it comes to sales
    • The different kinds of energetic awareness and how this is relevant
    • How your unmet needs can subconsciously affect the advice you are giving to others
    • How to give suggestions to others and ensure that these suggestions are 'clean' from a needs perspective
    • The multitude of things that could affect the way of meeting the needs that would work for a person, things that you will likely not be aware of
    • How there's a difference between the things that meet your needs well and things that just meet your needs 'less badly'
    • Why most people exist at the crappy end of the scale in the ways they meet their own needs
    • How you CAN be supportive to others and their needs without telling them how to meet them
    • Why even Claire who developed The Universal Needs won't tell people how to meet their needs
    • The first question to ask ANY person before making suggestions on ways that might help them meet their needs
    • How this approach can undermine your relationship with that person, compromise trust and create resentment
    • How many people working in the personal development space take this approach with clients, telling them what to do, and how this can cause harm to multiple needs
    • How you can say no to someone who tells you how to meet your needs, without even needing to say no
      • ...more
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