Most relationships have shared trauma to some degree. Couples in these types of relationships either always feed off of or on the other person. If you're someone who can't handle your own issues, how well do you think you'll be able to handle the issues of someone else. There are many people who take on the task of trying to handle the lives of the individuals they think they love, only to find themselves in even worst situations. People who haven't dealt with their own pains/unresolved issues, will oftentimes go through life meeting people of similar mindsets. They believe they're deeply in love, when they actually don't know what love is, because they don't love self.

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