No one made you abuse, you chose to be that person, (for whatever reason) just as the abuser chose to allow abuse into his or her life, (for whatever reason). Both types ofs mindset are created out of past experiences. I say people create the abusers in their lives, because significant others can't abuse the individuals they're with, unless they've been given the power to abuse. People are given power when they get to talk to their significant others wrong, physically abuse them, verbally abuse them, emotionally abuse them, mentally abuse them, etc., without consequences. When you let someone treat you this way, you give power to them to continue. They will feed off of your fear and insecurities.

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